AFAICT, his priorities are friends-work-hobbies-family. He'd probably claim otherwise, but I base that ranking on over 30 years of observations. I doubt they will change in any meaningful way anytime soon. (In many ways, I was a single mom, especially with SR; except that I didn't have to work outside of the home.)

When I married him, I had hopes that he'd grow up a bit, but at this point I don't think he will. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯